the fat doctor

When doctors don’t listen and the internet doesn’t offer answers, it’s time to work with someone who truly gets it

As a Fat doctor with 20+ years of medical expertise and a lifetime of navigating healthcare as a Fat patient, I’ve seen the system fail from both sides of the consulting room

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Tired of doctors blaming everything on your weight? Let's get to the real answers. We'll explore what's actually behind your symptoms, develop a weight-neutral management plan you can actually use, and arm you with advocacy strategies that work. You'll walk away validated, informed, and ready to demand the care you deserve.

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Have you been told you need to lose weight before surgery? I'll take the hard work out of fighting for your care. Get a 90-minute strategy session, professionally written appeal letter, comprehensive medical evidence package, and 30-day follow-up support. Stop accepting 'no' when you deserve proper medical treatment

Let's be honest about the state of healthcare

Whether you’re dealing with an established diagnosis that keeps getting blamed on your weight, or nagging pain that’s been going on for months, or relentless fatigue, or concerning test results, or high blood pressure, or any number of issues that require medical attention… you basically have two options, and they both suck.

OPTION 1: See your doctor, who’ll likely blame everything on your weight and send you home with the same old “eat less, move more” advice

OR

OPTION 2: Turn to the internet, which will either convince you that you’re dying of some rare disease or – surprise! – still tell you to lose weight.

No wonder you’ve been putting up with or ignoring those symptoms for so long. Neither option offers real help. Both just pile on shame, guilt, and self-blame. Because whatever is going on in your body right now, it’s all just the price of being fat, right?

WRONG!

The truth is, you’re caught in a broken healthcare system that’s more committed to making bodies smaller than to actually healing them. Meanwhile, your symptoms persist, serious conditions go undiagnosed, and you’re left feeling like your health concerns don’t matter.

The real problem isn't your body. It's a system that refuses to see past it.

Five years ago, I had a wake-up call

For nearly two decades, I practiced medicine the way I was taught. I prescribed weight loss. I believed I was helping. I WAS WRONG!

During the COVID pandemic, I found myself stepping on the scale, panicking at the number, and starting yet another weight loss attempt. As my mental health deteriorated, I began questioning everything I thought I knew about weight and health.

What I discovered blew my mind: Everything I had been taught about weight loss was a lie. It isn’t the sustainable, effective treatment doctors claim it is. The evidence doesn’t support it. The entire narrative around weight and health is essentially made up.

I realized that doctors need to stop focusing on weight and prescribing weight loss. Why? Because:

  • Weight loss is unsustainable for the vast majority of people
  • There’s no evidence it provides long-term health benefits
  • The pursuit of weight loss causes significant physical and psychological harm

When doctors prioritize weight loss, they:

  • Disregard their patients’ autonomy
  • Delay actual treatment
  • Miss critical diagnoses
  • Make it impossible for Fat patients to trust the

Good medical care is weight inclusive. All other forms of healthcare are harmful and contribute to poorer health outcomes. In other words, if doctors treated their Fat patients with respect and dignity, without discrimination or bias, our health would improve.

This revelation transformed my approach to medicine. Today, I’ve dedicated my career to challenging harmful weight-centric narratives and helping people like you access the care you deserve.

If you can't trust your doctor and you can't trust the internet, work with me instead

I’m your third option – someone who combines medical expertise with lived experience, someone who won’t blame every health issue on your weight, someone who sees you as a whole person deserving of real care.

I’m not here to sell you weight loss or miracle cures. I’m here to offer evidence-based healthcare approaches that actually work, regardless of body size.

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These resources aren’t watered-down versions of my paid offerings – they’re valuable tools designed to help you start reclaiming your healthcare experience today. Use them, share them, and remember that you deserve care that treats you with dignity and respect.

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