Beyond the numbers
Are you being denied treatment until you lose weight?
Rejecting BMI, Embracing Fair Care
You've been told that you're not a suitable candidate for surgery but were offered a referral to a bariatric surgeon
it doesn't make sense
you're being forced to diet or take weight loss medication to get your BMI down to a level that qualifies for treatment
You've been robbed of your autonomy
you were told that the treatment you need isn't an option for you because of your weight and there is nothing you can do about it
It isn't fair
Debunking the BMI Myth
The Case for Fair Care
BMI is an extremely inaccurate measure of health. In fact, 50% of people with a “high BMI” are metabolically healthy. But here’s the thing: you don’t need to be healthy to qualify for treatment. Denying someone medical care based on their height and weight is, by definition, discrimination. Doctors are obligated to practice medicine fairly and without bias, yet many continue to use BMI as an excuse to withhold care.
The justifications for denying treatment based on BMI are not only discriminatory but easily refuted with evidence. Weight is not a modifiable factor—almost all attempts at weight loss fail within two years. Even more concerning, intentional weight loss is extremely harmful. Doctors have a responsibility to “do no harm,” and perpetuating harmful weight loss practices violates that fundamental principle.
Real Experiences, Real Change
How I’ve Supported Others on Their Journey
Stories of Transformation and Support
Jean had been been told she couldn’t have a knee replacement until her BMI was under 30. Apparently the procedure was too high risk and she was told that losing weight prior to surgery would improve her long term outcomes. I showed her the evidence that disproved both of these statements, and together we created a plan to appeal the decision.
Jay needed a laparoscopic procedure for their endometriosis. The pain had a detrimental affect on their quality of life. Their gynecologist refused to perform the procedure even though it was a low risk day case. Together we wrote a formal complaint letter outlining why this was a breech of the doctor’s duty of care.
Ricky had a gastric bypass 3 years ago, and developed gallstones a few months later. He had been admitted to hospital twice with sepsis and needed to have his gallbladder removed. His GI surgeon refused because his BMI wasn’t low enough. Since gallstones are a recognised complication of weight loss surgery, we argued that doctors had duty of care to operate on him.
My clients are
ready for a radically different experience
They're fed up of being treated like crap by their doctors. They’ve had enough. They know they deserve better.
My clients are
enthusiastic about taking their power back
from a medical system that was designed to oppress Fat people. They’re done with the status quo. They want something better.
My clients are
ready to prioritise themselves
They know that making an investment in their health and wellbeing will ripple through the rest of their lives.
My clients are
not interested in pursuing weight loss
That doesn’t mean they aren’t tempted, especially if they’re being pressured or coerced into it. But ultimately they know it isn’t sustainable.
A Different Kind of Doctor
What Sets My Care Apart
I promise i will
Take my Time
We’ll spend 90 minutes together in which I will validate your experiences, answer your questions, and offer weight neutral information, advice and support.
I promise i will
respect you
My respect is automatic. You don’t have to earn it. You know more about your body and your health than any medical professional ever will, and I will honour your expertise.
I promise i will
let you lead
I give you the support and encouragement you need to reclaim your agency and power. I ensure that you set the agenda and lead the conversation. You are always in charge!
I promise i will
help you
We’ll work together to come up with a personalised management plan that works for you. You’ll leave with a bespoke script that you can take back to your own doctor.
What they say
Success stories
“Asher, I can’t thank you enough. It’s hellish having to fight for treatment and you have made that process easier. You were amazing and I’m very glad for the world that you’re doing this”
“I feel really seen and heard and supported by you, and I feel like I can say for the first time in months I am going to get my surgeries and I am going to get my diagnoses, and I feel like you’ve reignited the fight in me that the majority of other medical professionals have actively sought to put out”
“After speaking to you I feel confident, stronger, and able to advocate for myself and the same level of care as everyone else in my situation.”
